It is common knowledge that having a mentor is valuable, and in turn being a mentor to others is a responsibility of leadership, but the perennial question remains – HOW to find a mentor or begin a mentoring relationship? Ministry can be difficult, and building relationships with other leaders to share experiences and encouragement can be the difference between longevity in ministry or burnout.
Conferences and events can be great places to make new professional connections and begin new relationships. However, networking and relationship building isn’t limited to physical, in-person gatherings. Networking can also take place online through social media groups, discussion boards, online cohorts, and other online areas where people gather to share and ask questions about a particular topic.
When you come across someone new, interesting, or with whom you would like to build a relationship, you can start by striking up a conversation at an in person event, or contacting them online. The fear of rejection is real though! Striking up a conversation about the topic at hand can be a great way to start.
When in-person networking, it’s important to be mindful of people’s time, the schedule of the event, and be observant of normal social cues. We don’t want to monopolize anyone’s time, but a quick introductory conversation is typically appropriate and welcomed. You can always offer to exchange contact information to continue the conversation later.
The most important key is to not be afraid to reach out, and begin the conversation! In our podcast episode I share an example from my own life when a conversation at a conference led to a great friendship and years of encouragement!
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